however, I have always failed to actually blog. I am coming up on a big period of change in my life and would love to journal about it for myself, if nothing else. My sister blogs, and I love to read her blogs to keep up on her musings, her life, recipes, and –of course– my niece! She did a beautiful blog today, talking about her last decade. I was sitting there, trying to figure out how she even remembered what she did in the years, but I guess I will try my best to sum up the last decade of my life for you…maybe it would be a good way to get to know me, and see why my blog is called “Life Without Marbles” 🙂
2000- I was a wee little freshie in high school. The band Hanson was influential in my life, and I loved the MTV movie “2-Gether.” Haha. If you saw this, please comment. I would like to know there is someone out there other than my sister, her best friends, and me that watched it. Anyway, I was thinking that I was going to grow up to go to college at Virginia Tech, and be a pharmacologist with an entrance salary of 80,000/ year when I exited school.
2001- Of course, the most poignant thing that I can remember about 2001 is September 11. I was a junior in high school that day. I was walking down the hallway with my friend Melissa, and her sister ran up to us and exclaimed that a helicopter had landed on the roof of the White House. We laughed at her and kept walking on to our chorus class…I was part of a singing ensemble called Madrigals. It was soo much fun, and my entrance into the addicting world of singing groups.
2002- Beginning of my senior year of high school. I was 17. I wasn’t super popular, but I was very well-liked by most groups at school 🙂 . I loved life… I do remember visiting my sister at college and a strange boy jumping into the back seat of the car with my friend Cheryl. Then the next day, we went to Paramount’s Kings Dominion with my sister and her friend Alena (who she had met online). We had the most fun. ever.
2003: Graduated high school and began college at Mary Washington College (which changed to the University of Mary Washington before I left). Lived through a sweltering August and September in Virginia in a dorm room that lacked air conditioning. Pure torture. LOL. But, we were one of the lucky rooms to have two windows. I met friends that will probably remain some of the truest friends I have ever known. I am blessed to still be close to 2 of the friends I met that freshman year. I also auditioned for, and became part of, a singing group known as “Una Voce.” Some of the most fun I’ve ever had with the most talented people I have ever known!
2004: Donnie, my dad’s best friend, died from liver cancer. My sister got married on July 31st. I BECAME AN IN-LAW.
2005: In January, one of my best friends from high school died from leukemia. She had beaten it once, but the second time, it got the better of her. I still regret not being around in that period of her life. I wasn’t there.
2006: Battled deep depression and dropped out of the teacher education program at MWC because I didn’t have the strength to kill myself doing a teacher program on top of the American History degree I was going for (which included a 30-page thesis). Moved to Pennsylvania. Was less than thrilled with the move right before my senior year of college.
2007: GRADUATED COLLEGE! Hurrah! Moved back to Pennsylvania and worked in child care and then as a temp.
2008: Started doing worship and arts ministry at my church. Found my home and my family in Pennsylvania. Joined a small group which consists of many decades of women, 20’s-60’s. Found support and love from them as I have dealt with many issues in my life since! October 27, the love of my life–my niece–was born!
2009: Oh wow. Finished actual classes for my teaching certification (will do student teaching beginning January 21st, 2010). 4.0 grade average. Love it. June 6th, my grandfather passed away. The first family member I have lost…it was really really hard. But I think he was ready to go. Sang in a Broadway Revue at church (so much fun, and so much work). Had a relationship during the summer that was very dysfunctional and didn’t work out, but I learned so much about myself and what I want for the future that I guess it was all worth it. Worked with autistic children Feb-December. One of the most challenging and rewarding things I have ever done. I think those children will always hold a piece of my heart. My baby–my dog, Pepper, who we had for 15 years–had to be put to sleep. It was my first Christmas without my sister and my dog in a very long time. It was a rough year–very crazy, very busy, but good.
It was a good decade. I’m looking forward to my next one.
Love! Ashley